Anonymous
Post 06/13/2013 23:25     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here!
I started looking and found another lead that may be perfect! If I choose to quit family B... How? I have never quit a job before! Do I offer to help her find a nanny? I am such a push over and if she asks me to stay in not sure what to say.
Do I say, I am not happy!? Probably not.. Adcice


"MB, I really appreciate the opportunity to work with you, but I just don't feel this is working. I've found another position that's a better fit, and I will be starting on X date. I am happy to help train my replacement if that would be useful at all."

And be prepared to be fired on the spot.


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+2 or professional email
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2013 22:55     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here!
I started looking and found another lead that may be perfect! If I choose to quit family B... How? I have never quit a job before! Do I offer to help her find a nanny? I am such a push over and if she asks me to stay in not sure what to say.
Do I say, I am not happy!? Probably not.. Adcice


"MB, I really appreciate the opportunity to work with you, but I just don't feel this is working. I've found another position that's a better fit, and I will be starting on X date. I am happy to help train my replacement if that would be useful at all."

And be prepared to be fired on the spot.


+1
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2013 22:53     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

Anonymous wrote:Op here!
I started looking and found another lead that may be perfect! If I choose to quit family B... How? I have never quit a job before! Do I offer to help her find a nanny? I am such a push over and if she asks me to stay in not sure what to say.
Do I say, I am not happy!? Probably not.. Adcice


"MB, I really appreciate the opportunity to work with you, but I just don't feel this is working. I've found another position that's a better fit, and I will be starting on X date. I am happy to help train my replacement if that would be useful at all."

And be prepared to be fired on the spot.
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2013 18:20     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

Never quit a nanny job! All my family's have ended in a move or kids have moved to daycare
Anonymous
Post 06/13/2013 18:12     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

Op here!
I started looking and found another lead that may be perfect! If I choose to quit family B... How? I have never quit a job before! Do I offer to help her find a nanny? I am such a push over and if she asks me to stay in not sure what to say.
Do I say, I am not happy!? Probably not.. Adcice
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2013 19:59     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

OP, in your next contract don't include a notice period long than 3-4 weeks. 8 weeks is nearly impossible to make work.
Anonymous
Post 06/12/2013 19:59     Subject: Conflicting feelings on quitting

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Okay. I have a contract that says I must give 8 weeks notice! Do I need I honour that?


Yes, you need to honor this unless you want to risk both a bad reference and a lawsuit.

The nanny forum stupidity hits a new low.
This family will fire you either immediately or as soon as they can replace you. The eight weeks notice is only for naive nannys who don't know better.

*nannies