Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Then do so. No one needs you show up with your boy toy just because you feel entitled to do so, even if he was not invited. As for OP you need to talk to her about this,aAnonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.
And not sure what you're deal with her boyfriend is, but focusing on capacity and explaining upfront the invite is sans anyone, she should understand.
Ha! It is your, not you're. If you have a nanny at home with your child, I sure she has taught this to your DC, maybe she can explain the difference to you as well.
Anonymous wrote:Then do so. No one needs you show up with your boy toy just because you feel entitled to do so, even if he was not invited. As for OP you need to talk to her about this,aAnonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.
And not sure what you're deal with her boyfriend is, but focusing on capacity and explaining upfront the invite is sans anyone, she should understand.
Anonymous wrote:Then do so. No one needs you show up with your boy toy just because you feel entitled to do so, even if he was not invited. As for OP you need to talk to her about this,aAnonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.
And not sure what you're deal with her boyfriend is, but focusing on capacity and explaining upfront the invite is sans anyone, she should understand.
Anonymous wrote:Then do so. No one needs you show up with your boy toy just because you feel entitled to do so, even if he was not invited. As for OP you need to talk to her about this,aAnonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.
And not sure what you're deal with her boyfriend is, but focusing on capacity and explaining upfront the invite is sans anyone, she should understand.
Then do so. No one needs you show up with your boy toy just because you feel entitled to do so, even if he was not invited. As for OP you need to talk to her about this,aAnonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.
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Anonymous wrote:I was invited to my charges birthday party and there is no way I would attend without my partner. My off time is important to me, and bc of our particular situation, weekends are the only times we have together. How would you feel if you were invited to a party and your husband was not allowed? Personally, I'd pass.