Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny, and the lovely family I work for wanted to get a puppy. I was all for it, though I had no idea of the extra work, responsibility and mess that it was going to add. It's been around 7 months now, and I am tired. They have offered me nothing in return for feeding her, taking her for walks, cleaning up her poop and wee ( it's the last thing I wanted to be greater with at 7am in the morning. I am a school run nanny so I work from 7-9 and then 3-6:15. I look after two children who are at primary school so their homework is pretty intense and takes up a lot of attention whilst doing this I have a puppy running around and causing havoc as she is getting no attention. The childrens Dad is away a lot so the puppy only goes on long walks a few days a week. I feel very sorry for the dog which causes me added stress! Because of this stress I may show up early to work (unpaid) so walk her myself as it makes my life easier and the puppy happier. I am also training her, toilet and house! She is very stubborn and because she has not had the around the clock training a puppy needs she is still biting!!! Which does not help with the children, again it causes added strain. I have lost a number of clothing because she as jumped and bitten a hole in them, the parents are aware and have done or said nothing! They are sympathic but it just doesn't feel like enough. I am unhappy at the moment and only because of this puppy. Can anyone help me as the family our lovely and I want to continue working with them.
Many thanks
Kay
Tell them that you need a raise or the puppy needs a dog trainer and walker. No one is going to offer you anything if you dont ask and stand up for yourself. Set up a meeting and explain in detail the added stress. Be prepared to leave the position if they arent willing to compensate you. You do not need to work for employers who show no respect for you.