Anonymous wrote:This is the Op- Thanks for everyone's help I guess. I'm not a troll I'm just a nanny trying to come to terms with losing my charge of over 2 years over something so stupid. I'm so Tired of the negative comments on this forum they're really not any help at all. How about if you don't have anything positive or helpful to say don't comment of my fucking posts. If you dont like the way I type sorry. I'm sorry for not being the best typer in the world but when I have something on my mind I try to type it out as fast as I can before I lose my train if thought. Her parents wanted me to watch her from 6-11pm and keep her at the park for at least three hours, while they had guests. Me and the child both have allergies so I expressed that I didn't think it was a good idea. This was not on my regular day (Saturday) it was an additional day which was a Friday..
You'll get better responses if you go back and revise your original posts - type everything out the way you want to, then reread and edit for cohesiveness and continuity (not to mention punctuation).
You'll also get better responses if you post a clear story and distinct question - your original post didn't leave us any direction to go in for commenting. Not whether you wanted to know what to say to the mother, if she was right or wrong, what you should have said instead, if allergy medicine is a legitimate cause... just a chaotic backstory and then a very general question.
So with that explained... you still haven't said anything you want our input on, only that you are coming to terms with saying goodbye to your charge. That is really hard and we all feel for you, but I don't know what we can say in this thread that would be helpful.