Anonymous wrote:She obviously has no respect for you and only views you as the Hired Help OP.

I say, leave this job and find a family who respects you like you deserve to be respected.

Again, I hope OP has already left this job as it has been about a year since she posted about this.

Maybe it's not always the best idea to bump posts from 9-12 months ago?

She obviously has no respect for you and only views you as the Hired Help OP.

I say, leave this job and find a family who respects you like you deserve to be respected.

OP, if you've already decided to find a new job, I wouldn't give them any more free passes. Next time this happens, bring them their kids wish them all a good evening. If this is a regular thing, nothing will make them change other than direct, complete chaos that they bring on themselves.

op, she is lying to you about telling her husband. How could she have told him when she decided on the spur of the moment? I hope you are being paid OT, if not, report them. Good luck and next time, spell out every contingency.