Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is this addressed to the woman, and not the man? Isn't he the one who should change his behavior?

Realistically, how many dudes are reading a nanny forum?

Realistically, what was the point of this original post? It’s all common sense and not up to someone’s partner to change them.

Anonymous wrote:Why is this addressed to the woman, and not the man? Isn't he the one who should change his behavior?

Realistically, how many dudes are reading a nanny forum?

Anonymous wrote:Why is this addressed to the woman, and not the man? Isn't he the one who should change his behavior?

+1

And it sounds like you have a very specific issue with your male boss. Anyone yelling is not ok, not just men. Talk to your employers instead of making a useless, blanketed post where it’s still somehow the female employer’s problem to fix your issues with her husband.

Why is this addressed to the woman, and not the man? Isn't he the one who should change his behavior?

You may be use to your husband throwing tantrums when he doesn’t get his way but for your staff it’s scary.

I’ve quit on the spot when working with dads who think the appropriate response to frustration is to yell.

I don’t care if it’s not even aimed at me. I won’t work in that kind of household and neither will many other nannies.

Keep that in mind. If that’s your home dynamic so be it. Won’t be my work dynamic.