Anonymous
07/11/2024 22:14
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of people wait to tell after the first trimester. I wouldn’t take it to heart .
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I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
While I think it is wrong to keep such a big announcement from you (considering how close you work alongside their child in their home!), many people tend to keep it to themselves until after the first trimester in case something could go wrong w/the pregnancy.
All of my NFs have always told me as soon as they knew - probably because I worked so closely in their personal environment - which I have always appreciated.
When if (God forbid?) something happened to your MomBoss & she needed immediate medical attention??
Wouldn’t she want you to know she was expecting in case she could not verbally inform the paramedics herself?
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Anonymous
07/08/2024 22:54
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of people wait to tell after the first trimester. I wouldn’t take it to heart .
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I wouldn’t take it personally OP.
While I think it is wrong to keep such a big announcement from you (considering how close you work alongside their child in their home!), many people tend to keep it to themselves until after the first trimester in case something could go wrong w/the pregnancy.
All of my NFs have always told me as soon as they knew - probably because I worked so closely in their personal environment - which I have always appreciated.
When if (God forbid?) something happened to your MomBoss & she needed immediate medical attention??
Wouldn’t she want you to know she was expecting in case she could not verbally inform the paramedics herself?
Anonymous
07/08/2024 18:37
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:I’m a pregnant nanny who is 11 weeks. I feel bad not disclosing it but what can you do. Think about it in the reverse OP.
Huge difference because your boss will likely fire you because you have no job security.
Anonymous
07/08/2024 18:36
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t owe you any news. She will tell you when she feels comfortable sharing.
Many people don’t share during the first trimester.
The subject wasn’t about owing news, CTFU! Some women go through difficulties the first trimester and miscarriages could occur
So what,! Working as a nanny is different for m working in an office and not telling. The nanny has to put up with MB's morning sickness, crazy hormones, etc. OP might not want to take care of as new born with older child.
Anonymous
07/08/2024 08:01
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
I’m a pregnant nanny who is 11 weeks. I feel bad not disclosing it but what can you do. Think about it in the reverse OP.
Anonymous
07/07/2024 20:54
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Since you know anyway. That’s a question to ask them.
Anonymous
07/07/2024 16:58
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Agreed with 1st trimester being difficult. As a nanny i think I’d want to know just like the OP since things can change in the schedule so totally understand the concern
Anonymous
07/07/2024 16:56
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:She doesn’t owe you any news. She will tell you when she feels comfortable sharing.
Many people don’t share during the first trimester.
The subject wasn’t about owing news, CTFU! Some women go through difficulties the first trimester and miscarriages could occur
Anonymous
07/07/2024 10:18
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
She doesn’t owe you any news. She will tell you when she feels comfortable sharing.
Many people don’t share during the first trimester.
Many people don’t share during the first trimester.
Anonymous
07/06/2024 18:25
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:A lot of people wait to tell after the first trimester. I wouldn’t take it to heart .
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Anonymous
07/06/2024 18:25
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Anonymous wrote:OP, why is it even a concern to you?
That’s not the question
Anonymous
07/06/2024 13:25
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
OP, why is it even a concern to you?
Anonymous
07/06/2024 05:49
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
They’re not obligated to tell you. They may not have even told their own family yet.
Anonymous
07/06/2024 04:46
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
A lot of people wait to tell after the first trimester. I wouldn’t take it to heart .
Anonymous
07/05/2024 21:30
Subject: Pregnancy and not disclose
Nannies,
I found out the family is expecting; very early prob about 6-8 weeks. I started w/them right when their first baby was born. Now son is about 13 months. Seen a lot of mom’s am sickness and food cravings but won’t share the news with me. I’ve always being told by former employers when they found out about their pregnancy and I’m not sure why my current employer won’t say anything to me, is this normal in today’s time or is the sensitiveness of the first trimester?? TIA
I found out the family is expecting; very early prob about 6-8 weeks. I started w/them right when their first baby was born. Now son is about 13 months. Seen a lot of mom’s am sickness and food cravings but won’t share the news with me. I’ve always being told by former employers when they found out about their pregnancy and I’m not sure why my current employer won’t say anything to me, is this normal in today’s time or is the sensitiveness of the first trimester?? TIA