I would have a friendly chat to say something like: "Larla, I know it is hard to get used to how quickly we speak and you may need me to clarify things. Please don't worry about asking me to repeat or clarify something. Let's start with talking about xxx - are you clear on what we need you to do on this?"
Also, do you have a family handbook? I think this is best way to get most basic instructions and expectations out there in a way she can digest on her how, at her own pace.