Anonymous
03/15/2021 20:31
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Op here
My other friend who recommended me is angry
She told me I’m stealing our friend job I told her it is not my fault friend employers
love me and want me to work for them
Honestly I told her I don’t care what people say
They don’t want my friend back so should I say no to the job?
My other friend who recommended me is angry
She told me I’m stealing our friend job I told her it is not my fault friend employers
love me and want me to work for them
Honestly I told her I don’t care what people say
They don’t want my friend back so should I say no to the job?
Anonymous
03/07/2021 17:06
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
I agree that if this family is so comfortable dropping their current Nanny in a heartbeat - they clearly would do the same thing to you if given the chance.
Also, if you took over her job >>> then it is 1000% that your friend will never ever speak to you again.
These are excellent reasons not to accept this position if it is offered to you.
Good luck.
Also, if you took over her job >>> then it is 1000% that your friend will never ever speak to you again.
These are excellent reasons not to accept this position if it is offered to you.
Good luck.
Anonymous
03/07/2021 16:26
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
You're not a nice friend at all. Your friend had surgery and recommended you because she thought her job would be safe. Instead you are planning to take it from her while she is recovering and likely racking up bills.
Are you familiar with Karma at all?
Are you familiar with Karma at all?
Anonymous
03/07/2021 16:06
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
You suck, OP.
+1. And OP is stupid.
Anonymous
03/07/2021 16:04
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
Still not cool. Is the family really that worth it for you? They will drop you like a hot potato too. You are angelina, your friend is jen, and the family is brad
+1. What they do to her - they will do to you. Don’t be a fool! And if you are going to be stupid and take your friend’s job make sure you NEVER get sick or injured as they’ll replace you in a heartbeat.
Anonymous
03/07/2021 14:53
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Anonymous wrote:Op here
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
Still not cool. Is the family really that worth it for you? They will drop you like a hot potato too. You are angelina, your friend is jen, and the family is brad
Anonymous
03/07/2021 07:49
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Anonymous wrote:Op here
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
Ok, so they need to provide a great reference to your friend, but they also have a reasonable fear. Remind your friend that you will send any information you find on other positions, and make sure you’re looking!
Anonymous
03/06/2021 23:42
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Anonymous wrote:Op here
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
You suck, OP.
Anonymous
03/06/2021 20:36
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Op here
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
She did surgery which had some complications
But is healing nicely now
However it’s over a month now and the kids are getting so attached to me
My friend started with kids when they were three weeks old they’re almost two now
Parents are pregnant again and worry my friend will not be able to lift kids
I told then it’s their choice
Anonymous
03/06/2021 19:27
Subject: Re:Don’t know what to do
Why did she leave? Wae on vacation for three months or she had surgery or she was helping a relative who had COVId complications? Recovery or helping others - you will lose a friend over taking the job. Vacation? She would have to understand that risk when she left for three weeks or three months.
Anonymous
03/05/2021 21:16
Subject: Don’t know what to do
Friends don’t screw friends out of their job.
Anonymous
03/05/2021 21:03
Subject: Don’t know what to do
Anonymous wrote:So if I understand correctly, you are filling in for a friend and the family likes you and you think they might ask you to stay long-term (which would mean your friend gets fired)?
If that is the case then there is no way you will still be friends if you steal her job (because that is 100% how she will feel). So decide first which matters more: the friend or the job.
+1. Your friend will hate you and rightfully so. Further, I would never - ever - trust employers who would drop a long term nanny like that.
Great nanny positions are not hard to come by. This temp nanny job will give you a good and recent reference. Go find a new job.
Anonymous
03/05/2021 20:37
Subject: Don’t know what to do
So if I understand correctly, you are filling in for a friend and the family likes you and you think they might ask you to stay long-term (which would mean your friend gets fired)?
If that is the case then there is no way you will still be friends if you steal her job (because that is 100% how she will feel). So decide first which matters more: the friend or the job.
If that is the case then there is no way you will still be friends if you steal her job (because that is 100% how she will feel). So decide first which matters more: the friend or the job.
Anonymous
03/05/2021 20:28
Subject: Don’t know what to do
Get some glass of wine, girl!
Anonymous
03/05/2021 18:30
Subject: Don’t know what to do
My girlfriend recommended me to work for her for a few months (we are nannies )
While working Both kids and parents love me
it sounds and looks like they want to offer me the job
I want to accept if asked
I was not working for a few years (my choice)and the money I’m making on my friend job is great
My friend is coming back for her job
Do you think my friend will dislike me if I stay on her joy?
While working Both kids and parents love me
it sounds and looks like they want to offer me the job
I want to accept if asked
I was not working for a few years (my choice)and the money I’m making on my friend job is great
My friend is coming back for her job
Do you think my friend will dislike me if I stay on her joy?