Anonymous wrote:Hello people,

Thank you for all the good advices. I definitely quit right now because the parents, grandparents, uncles and aunties are in town with 8 kids to take care of without even asking me. Just told me we are staying for thanksgiving but you would have 3 weeks off for Christmas. It looks like an exchange. I told the family your times off or vacation are your choices. Having a nanny is a luxury. The nanny works or not, you travel or not. Therefore, you can’t thrown things on me without asking me. She said she is not understanding because it’s a win win position. I told her ok! “I’m going to pick up something in my car and come”. In the car I texted her and told her I’m quitting. She doesn’t need a nanny. She need a maid, nanny, housekeeper and so on. And wished her good luck!
I’m relied! Thank you all

Amazing! I hope you find a family that values you.

Good for you, OP! All the best!

Anonymous wrote:Hello people,

Thank you for all the good advices. I definitely quit right now because the parents, grandparents, uncles and aunties are in town with 8 kids to take care of without even asking me. Just told me we are staying for thanksgiving but you would have 3 weeks off for Christmas. It looks like an exchange. I told the family your times off or vacation are your choices. Having a nanny is a luxury. The nanny works or not, you travel or not. Therefore, you can’t thrown things on me without asking me. She said she is not understanding because it’s a win win position. I told her ok! “I’m going to pick up something in my car and come”. In the car I texted her and told her I’m quitting. She doesn’t need a nanny. She need a maid, nanny, housekeeper and so on. And wished her good luck!
I’m relied! Thank you all

Good luck, OP. I am so sorry that happened to you.

Hello people,

Thank you for all the good advices. I definitely quit right now because the parents, grandparents, uncles and aunties are in town with 8 kids to take care of without even asking me. Just told me we are staying for thanksgiving but you would have 3 weeks off for Christmas. It looks like an exchange. I told the family your times off or vacation are your choices. Having a nanny is a luxury. The nanny works or not, you travel or not. Therefore, you can’t thrown things on me without asking me. She said she is not understanding because it’s a win win position. I told her ok! “I’m going to pick up something in my car and come”. In the car I texted her and told her I’m quitting. She doesn’t need a nanny. She need a maid, nanny, housekeeper and so on. And wished her good luck!
I’m relied! Thank you all

Stop doing all these extra things. Leave the dishes! Tell them.

Get your new job, and quit after you get your last pay. Many parents get very nasty right after you tell them you have a new job. Good luck.

MB here - none of this is ok! We would never do this to our nanny. They are taking advantage of you! I would find another job and resign.

I would start looking for a new position, then quit.

My advice is to find your next job before you quit OP.

It is ALWAYS easier to find a job when you already have one, and it's also easier to explain why you might not have a reference from your current employer.

So go find yourself a job and then give notice. Hopefully you don't have to give more than 2 weeks notice and any new employer will understand needing to give notice.

Good luck!

Hello,
This is OP and I really appreciated your encouragements.
Thank you and I will let you posted

My former employers were like this. Yes, you need to start looking for another job and give your notice. Your employers will only get worse as time goes on.

Sorry OP that you have to deal w/this sad excuse for an employer.
They sound like they are taking you more for granted the longer you continue working for them.

Yes - - you need to quit this job stat.
You do not have to give a specific reason, you can be really general as to why you want to quit this position.

If you can handle it, give your two-week notice like today.
Or longer if your contract stipulates it.

And as usually happens when issuing them your walking papers, there is a chance that you may be asked to leave on the spot so hopefully you will be okay financially until you find a new job.
If not, you may have to give notice once you have another job lined up or at least have saved some ca$h to get you through.

Whatever occurs, I wish you the best of luck.
The sooner you can get away from this sorry excuse for a family, the better.

Hi parents and nannies,

I have been working with a family for 3 years now. First, they were very nice but now they are very demanding. They wanted a nanny, housekeeper, a maid and a personal assistant for one rate. When I come in the morning, the house is a big mess with toys and a pile of dirty dishes. I have told them several times we need to work together to keep the house neat “impossible “. For instance, the children closets are a mess. When parents want a clothe for the children or even for them, they could take one cloth from the bottom and leave everything mixed up or on the floor. On Mondays, they left me their dirty dishes to clean. When I start it was one kid but now 2 and the 3rd one on the way. They want me to stay late without a notice. I told them I find a second job but they want me to stay late without going to my next job. They eat and leave in the counter without putting in the sink. The think is I’m burnout. As a parent or a nanny how to handle it? I meant to quit without any drama. I know they won’t change. I’m really sorry for the typo. English is not my first language.
Thank you for your help