Anonymous wrote:Our new au pair started Monday. Old Au Pair is off on her travel month. It is amazing what night and day the new experience is. I will never again try to stick it out to avoid rematch because it seems more convenient because I realize after just one week how WONDERFUL it is to have an Au Pair who actually likes kids, actually helps around the house, and actually makes my life easier (even in the very first week!!) I am posting this to remind myself if I am ever in a situation with an au pair again who would never think to go the extra mile...that it might be time to move on. Also, my neighbor said to me "this one doesn't smoke, does she?" and I said "no, neither did the last one" and she said "oh, well, I saw her several times on your back porch smoking during the day while you were at work...I thought you knew." (and I actually don't CARE about smoking if it's not in my house and around the kids...but it's the LYING!!!)
Ohhh, the honeymoon period.