Anonymous
02/01/2019 14:59
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
Update OP?
Anonymous
02/01/2019 03:19
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
Good questions directly ^^^^ above.
Anonymous
01/31/2019 21:18
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
A few things to consider:
1) What exactly is your concern? Are you worried that she cannot successfully care for kids of different ages? If so is it at the level of a safety issue (not able to supervise toddler while caring for baby, e.g.), or just that it is not the best care (e.g., toddler is not getting out to activities? Or are you worried that nanny is stressed and might quit? What specifically is going poorly?
2) Has she handled two of different ages before? It is far tougher than twins/shares because there is no down time ever, and you have to constantly juggle. If she has only done singletons and shares then there will be a learning curve and you need to sit her down and come up with a plan.
3) How much infant experience does she have? Some people aren’t great with babies. If she is struggling eith basic aspects of infant care (getting baby to take a bottle, burping successfully, managing naps, diapering), then she may be causing her time with the baby to be tough even if he is an easy baby otherwise (baby may be hungry or tired and therefore cranky, baby might be spitting up or having diaper blowouts if she is bad at burping or diapering, etc.).
4) How committed are you to this nanny? Is the loyalty just there because she cares about your older DC, or is this someone your truly trust and respect?
1) What exactly is your concern? Are you worried that she cannot successfully care for kids of different ages? If so is it at the level of a safety issue (not able to supervise toddler while caring for baby, e.g.), or just that it is not the best care (e.g., toddler is not getting out to activities? Or are you worried that nanny is stressed and might quit? What specifically is going poorly?
2) Has she handled two of different ages before? It is far tougher than twins/shares because there is no down time ever, and you have to constantly juggle. If she has only done singletons and shares then there will be a learning curve and you need to sit her down and come up with a plan.
3) How much infant experience does she have? Some people aren’t great with babies. If she is struggling eith basic aspects of infant care (getting baby to take a bottle, burping successfully, managing naps, diapering), then she may be causing her time with the baby to be tough even if he is an easy baby otherwise (baby may be hungry or tired and therefore cranky, baby might be spitting up or having diaper blowouts if she is bad at burping or diapering, etc.).
4) How committed are you to this nanny? Is the loyalty just there because she cares about your older DC, or is this someone your truly trust and respect?
Anonymous
01/31/2019 21:02
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
She's probably underpaid and resents it. Babies are a ton of work.
Anonymous
01/31/2019 17:40
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
Maybe give her some tips you figured out.
Anonymous
01/31/2019 15:46
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
How long has she been in this new role? It can take a bit of time to get into things
Anonymous
01/31/2019 12:10
Subject: Nanny struggling to take care of toddler and newborn
We just love our nanny, who has been watching our DD (2) in a share since she was 5 months old. Our share ended and she is now taking care of DD and her baby brother, who is 4 months old. Our nanny was very excited to take the job, and we thought this would be a great situation, but she seems stressed out by having to deal with their competing needs. I took care of both solo for a month while she is on vacation, and I think he is objectively a pretty easy baby. I think she is just struggling with the change in their routine.
Has anyone been through this transition? Any suggestions?
Has anyone been through this transition? Any suggestions?