Anonymous
Post 01/18/2019 09:02     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OK, but checking is only causing you grief and stress.

Stop checking and have a Face-to-Face meeting to go over how things are going. Just speculating is only going to make you worry more.



To be honest, we’d be okay if she checked out early.


Ok, then why are you stalking her? People are so so weird!


Because having some idea of whether you’ll need child care on short notice is important?


OP, it sounds like you have a terrible relationship with your AP. Why not rematch and be done?
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2019 08:06     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OK, but checking is only causing you grief and stress.

Stop checking and have a Face-to-Face meeting to go over how things are going. Just speculating is only going to make you worry more.



To be honest, we’d be okay if she checked out early.


Ok, then why are you stalking her? People are so so weird!


Because having some idea of whether you’ll need child care on short notice is important?
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2019 05:32     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OK, but checking is only causing you grief and stress.

Stop checking and have a Face-to-Face meeting to go over how things are going. Just speculating is only going to make you worry more.



To be honest, we’d be okay if she checked out early.


Ok, then why are you stalking her? People are so so weird!
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2019 19:13     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Anonymous wrote:OK, but checking is only causing you grief and stress.

Stop checking and have a Face-to-Face meeting to go over how things are going. Just speculating is only going to make you worry more.



To be honest, we’d be okay if she checked out early.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2019 17:25     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

OK, but checking is only causing you grief and stress.

Stop checking and have a Face-to-Face meeting to go over how things are going. Just speculating is only going to make you worry more.

Anonymous
Post 01/15/2019 16:57     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Anonymous wrote:Question is rather why are YOU stalking your au pair?!!


It’s pretty clear she is at most half-hearted in her commitment to staying in the US for a year. She has family scheduled to visit later this month (planned long ago), and I’m curious as to whether she will pull the plug once their travel here is complete.
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2019 09:11     Subject: Re:Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Is she looking for tax info?
Anonymous
Post 01/15/2019 00:40     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Question is rather why are YOU stalking your au pair?!!
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2019 22:05     Subject: Re:Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she wants to extend after all, but not with your family....

How do you know she’s logging on?


Contact information shows last login time/date.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2019 20:25     Subject: Re:Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Maybe she wants to extend after all, but not with your family....

How do you know she’s logging on?
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2019 18:05     Subject: Re:Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

There are a million reasons... There are tons of resources on the site for au pairs.... You sound sort of nuts...
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2019 15:44     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

Who knows.
Maybe shes looking for a picture she placed up there
Maybe shes looking for insurance information.
Maybe she wants to see what your family profile said about something specific.
maybe she forgot a birthday and wants to check it.

Anonymous
Post 01/14/2019 14:49     Subject: Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?

She is not extending and it’s not time to make travel plans back home yet. What resources are on the site for au pairs? I sometimes wonder if she’s going to up and bail out...as in go home and call it quits. But would there be some other reason she’s logging in to her account?