Anonymous wrote:OP here. I don’t know what “clear boundaries” would be. I get a couple hours a day to myself but my job is to be with her and the family all the time. Of course she is in my room - they bring me so they can sleep in.
Yeah, I hate it.
Tell them you’ll need more time off so you don’t get burned out. When you accept a new job, tell them you’re happy to travel with them, but only with set hours and your own bedroom. If travel comes up, I always tell them my own requirement for work travel is my own room, even if it means a room at a less expensive hotel near where they’re staying.