Anonymous wrote:Just say you're not interested. I'm sure there are other candidates.
I would consider someone in rematch. I would not consider someone in rematch 2 times over. She might be unlucky, but that bad lucky is likely to stick as long as she's an au pair. HPs have to make decisions based on the limited information we're given. This is a major red flag. You don't have the time and energy to sort through this person's life. It's not worth the risk.
Anonymous wrote:My current AP rematched three times. She had some horrendous HF situations. She is the second best au pair that we've had. Worth talking to at the very least.....