Anonymous wrote:OP, you are a poorly paid servant. Find a new job and get someone to help you with a contract. Get that contract signed with guaranteed hours, Federal holidays off with pay, two weeks paid vacation and one of your choice. All hours worked over 40 are paid OT. Your minimum hourly wage should be no less than $18/hr. Once you have a new job, give these cretins you now work for a maximum of two weeks notice.
You need assertiveness training and someone to teach you how to look out for yourself.
But OP, are you legal and paid on the books? I don't think you have made that clear. You must be legal and pay taxes to expect the benefits that other nannies get. Otherwise you and the HF are conspiring together and it's not going to work out well for you.