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Anonymous wrote:This might not be appropriate but it seems like he is making time for you two to be intimate. It seems like he really wnats to get you to bed.

Lol op here I must be very naive. This never occurred to me. Sounds like a lifetime made for TV movie. He doesn't seem inappropriate in any other way so I hope this is not what this man has on his mind.

Pp here. I stated the question may inappropriate for this forum but I quite surprised to read the above. How is your DH wanting to be intimate inappropriate or like a lifetime movie? I am starting to think you don't have an intimate relationship, and he wants one. You hope he doesn't have that on his mind but all men and most women do. I find it odd that you don't want your DH to want an intimate relationship with you. It's really sad for him.

Pp here. Forget all I said. I thought this was an MB talking about her husband. I didn't realize it was a nanny talking about her boss. Maybe he thinks you work too hard, or maybe the child is too cranky at night, and BD feels his needs more naps during the day? Why don't you address this with him or MB. Tell him you noticed he keeps saying the child needs a nap, and if he wnats you to structure your day different to include? Most DBS I have were clueless about that and either fed the child or put the baby to bed every time he/she fussed.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This might not be appropriate but it seems like he is making time for you two to be intimate. It seems like he really wnats to get you to bed.

Lol op here I must be very naive. This never occurred to me. Sounds like a lifetime made for TV movie. He doesn't seem inappropriate in any other way so I hope this is not what this man has on his mind.

Pp here. I stated the question may inappropriate for this forum but I quite surprised to read the above. How is your DH wanting to be intimate inappropriate or like a lifetime movie? I am starting to think you don't have an intimate relationship, and he wants one. You hope he doesn't have that on his mind but all men and most women do. I find it odd that you don't want your DH to want an intimate relationship with you. It's really sad for him.

Anonymous wrote:This might not be appropriate but it seems like he is making time for you two to be intimate. It seems like he really wnats to get you to bed.

Lol op here I must be very naive. This never occurred to me. Sounds like a lifetime made for TV movie. He doesn't seem inappropriate in any other way so I hope this is not what this man has on his mind.

Op here sorry I was so thrown off by that silly question that I forgot to respond to the other points in that post. But no he isn't very aware of anything. The kids don't nap on the weekends and only sleep and follow a routine for me. The dad even says they should record my voice because they don't follow directions for them like they do for me. He is also very hands off. He just really likes naps I guess lol

Anonymous wrote:Why are you in the bedroom, reading, if the child isn't getting ready for a nap? I mean it's not weird or anything but I normally only take my charges to their room if it's nap time.

I don't think it's strange, maybe the dad is used to his kids nap schedules or maybe looking out for you, making sure you're not getting burnt out. Maybe ask the dad about the naps? Tell him your plan about ending 2 naps and hear his feedback.

He seems like a dad that knows his kids can be too much or mom only leaves him in charge when it comes to nap time, so that's all he knows lol

um Why am I in the bedroom reading? What sort of question is this? Should we go to their home library or sit in the main areas of the house where the dad will be a distraction to my charge? The bedroom has toys, games and puzzles too. Yes we read in there in between playing. What sort of question....

Anonymous wrote:This might not be appropriate but it seems like he is making time for you two to be intimate. It seems like he really wnats to get you to bed.

I was thinking the same thing!! But I didn't want to say it.

Why are you in the bedroom, reading, if the child isn't getting ready for a nap? I mean it's not weird or anything but I normally only take my charges to their room if it's nap time.

I don't think it's strange, maybe the dad is used to his kids nap schedules or maybe looking out for you, making sure you're not getting burnt out. Maybe ask the dad about the naps? Tell him your plan about ending 2 naps and hear his feedback.

He seems like a dad that knows his kids can be too much or mom only leaves him in charge when it comes to nap time, so that's all he knows lol

This might not be appropriate but it seems like he is making time for you two to be intimate. It seems like he really wnats to get you to bed.

What is wrong with this guy? Months ago I began noticing he seems really fixated on napping. Yes we all need a moment from time to time but this is weird. I was trying to wing my youngest off of 2 naps per day. He was over a year old and I was beginning to stretch his mornings so that he would miss his sleepy "window" around 10 am and get another wind of energy and then sleep just once in the afternoon after lunch. Before he would go down around 9:30/10 and then not be tired after lunch and want to go back to sleep around 3/4 pm. Thing is he could easily sleep until dinner or just ruin our outings being cranky.

Db is always popping up to work from home unannounced. We will be in a bedroom reading and his dad would come in and just stand there watching and then once he whined about anything or rubbed his eyes he is all "Yeah you should probably put him in his crib for a nap" If Im giving him a snack and DB shows up he will pick him up and start asking if he wants to go Night Night. Then sometimes when the kids are sleep he will come in the living room where Im sitting and say things like "yeah its nice and peaceful around here now. Good time for you to catch a nap when its quiet this way" or just anything strange like this. I don't go around yawning and the kids are fine. Whats this mans problem? I could see if it were a part of his culture or something but most people don't nap during the day. He has me wondering if we all seem exhausted when he comes home from work at night.