Does it really matter, OP? If you feel secure in your job and love it, just let it roll off your back.

I had an MB like this who was always trying to find fault with me - and always after some incident when he child showed me too much affection or cried when I went home. I let it roll off my back. I was with that family until the little guy started school and still see him once a week. Just like when I was a teacher - you love the child and just put up with the parents. All I expect from parents is to be paid on time and relieved on time. The rest of my focus is on the children. Yes

Anonymous wrote:She does sound like she has serious issues if she is actually wasting time trying to find something....Anything to show that you are an incompetent care provider.

Perhaps she is jealous of hearing her husband praise you so often that she feels inferior to you & wants to bring you down.

You shouldn't have to deal w/this MB's lame insecurities so my best advice is to encourage you to quit this job and begin to search for a new one.

It's not fair that you have to deal w/this B.S.

thank you so much my exact same thoughts !

She does sound like she has serious issues if she is actually wasting time trying to find something....Anything to show that you are an incompetent care provider.

Perhaps she is jealous of hearing her husband praise you so often that she feels inferior to you & wants to bring you down.

You shouldn't have to deal w/this MB's lame insecurities so my best advice is to encourage you to quit this job and begin to search for a new one.

It's not fair that you have to deal w/this B.S.

Anonymous wrote:Find a new job and quit. Also, do not be surprised if she lets you gonna the spot.

thank you

Anonymous wrote:She is probably just an anxious mom. Not everything is worth quitting a job over.

are you a mom or nanny? I'm asking because you seem to not understand what I am struggling with.

She is probably just an anxious mom. Not everything is worth quitting a job over.

Find a new job and quit. Also, do not be surprised if she lets you gonna the spot.

I have been with my family for about a year now. When I first began I rarely saw the mom. Whenever I did see her she always seems to question my work. I know that it's jealously. It saddens me because I really love the twins. It's just extremely annoying how jealous she is, like you're rarely around to have a say so, but out of respect that she is their mom I remain professional. The dad praises me a lot, but mom on the other hand is so phony. Lately I will over hear her questioning the girls about me. EX: (hey did ____ wipe you or did no one wipe you"? I walked in on her asking one of the girls, and she looked like she saw a ghost. Thankfully the twins love me and know that I do my best to take care of them. The girls will answer "yes" and say "why mommy" and she'll give them a shitty response.(excuse my language) but these are kids unless you really feel like I'm doing a bad job talk to me. She has no reason to not like me. I've thought of many ways to confront the situation, but I think quitting is the best choice at this point. I just feel sad for the children because I've grown so close with them.