Anonymous wrote:Every year I make a card for my charge and get a book. He has a pretty extensive book collection that all of his grandparents contribute to and write something on the inside cover. My MB had a similar set up as a kid and she had remarked once how much she loved it.
I help my charge make cards for people in his life. It's great that you can be generous and thoughtful and also spoil a little!
There is nothing great about spoiling a child. You work for them, let them spoil him for ridiculous holidays. I'm happy my mb and db didn't give treats and toys to my charges this year. The are still enjoying Christmas gifts for goodness sakes. A book for Valentine's Day is teaching the wrong thing. Instead teach them how to go to the library and check out books and the responsibility of returning them for others to enjoy