Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There is no magic answer. The people who impress me do some or all of these:
- get down on the floor and play with my kids
- get my kids to interact with them comfortably/quickly
- ask smart questions about our parenting style, things we value most, what we're looking for, etc...
- speak well - seem intelligent, capable, calm
- have a nice sense of humor and a positive spirit
- have straightforward, direct answers to questions - especially ones regarding employment history, choice of nannying as a profession, etc...
- can talk about what makes a great fit for them in terms of a job
etc...
All of the above AND ask where she can wash her hands before she comes near the baby.
Anonymous wrote:There is no magic answer. The people who impress me do some or all of these:
- get down on the floor and play with my kids
- get my kids to interact with them comfortably/quickly
- ask smart questions about our parenting style, things we value most, what we're looking for, etc...
- speak well - seem intelligent, capable, calm
- have a nice sense of humor and a positive spirit
- have straightforward, direct answers to questions - especially ones regarding employment history, choice of nannying as a profession, etc...
- can talk about what makes a great fit for them in terms of a job
etc...
Anonymous wrote:Get my dog to like you without giving her a treat. She's an excellent judge of character. We rejected someone who was great on paper and seemed fine because our dog didn't like her.