doodlebug wrote:If they're working on Xmas day, I GUARANTEE they're being paid extra for it...both in cash and in an extra day off later. I'd still talk to them about what they're planning to do for YOU but it's completely reasonable to expect double pay if you'll be missing out on your own festivities. Perhaps they'll let you take the kids to your home for the day, or out to the movies etc to make it a more special day instead of same ol' same ol'.
Um, no. That's not how it works for doctors. Call is part of their job; each doctor in the practice takes a certain number of holidays each year, and generally the Jews volunteer to do Christmas and Easter. In fact, where I grew up in Mobile, AL, Jewish doctors would volunteer to work on Christmas in hospitals where they had privileges to free up another doctor to be with his/her family, even if it wasn't their turn or part of their employment contract. No extra pay. Just good will.
I would assume that the nanny of emergency room physicians has a very different kind of schedule than most nannies. I also would assume that working holidays, including Christmas, was disclosed as part of the hiring process as part of the regular hours. That was the time to object, ask for a different rate, or say that she was not willing to work on Christmas. Then the couple would have been free to accept her terms, or move on and try to find someone else.
The OP clearly feels that working on Christmas should be acknowledged as something special, and she should address it before it comes up again next year. However, if I were she, I would not bring it up this year unless she is going to ask to take it as a paid day off. I think they will say no to extra pay, and I also think that asking might affect whatever bonus they were planning to give which, I would assume, would reflect their good will for her working the holiday.
If I were those physicians, however, I might reconsider having both people work Christmas/Easter for the next few years, however, since it does seem kind of ridiculous to free up another doctor to be home with his/her family by requiring someone else (their nanny) to work that day. This is something else I would encourage OP to point out AFTER the holiday.