Anonymous wrote:I'm an MB, and not high profile or with a business manager, so my advice may not be that helpful (though I manage a large staff in my day job.)
But my two cents would be to email the mother and cc the business manager. You can address the fact that you weren't sure who to discuss this with so you cc'd the business manager, but then both parties know. Your employer is the parent, not the business manager, so therefore the request is of your employer and the business manager will carry out their wishes.
Good luck.
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