Is $18 too small for a nanny share in NW, DC. with the nanny having 15 years of experience? The nanny just finished a nanny-share for two and half years with another family. we are offering her 2 weeks pay, 5 sick days and 7 paid holidays. We wanted to pay her $20 put the other family wanted to pay her $18. We feel like she will leave if she gets a better offer.