Anonymous wrote:Basically:
Assuming each family has one child in the share, you will both pay the same "share rate" (let's say $10/hr) for all the hours you both use her.
In the simplest share you would both need the same hours covered each week, but that rarely happens. So there should be an agreement with your nanny and between the families that when only one of you needs her (and set these hours so your nanny knows she has 35 shared hours and 5 solo hours and can plan her finances accordingly) they will pay a higher rate (let's say $15).
No one pays more or less for hosting or anything like that. Both parties make a trade off.
This. Some families split the hosting duties between the houses so that both families get the advantages and disadvantages of being the host family. That can be harder, especially with young babies who need lots of big "stuff" like cribs and high chairs.
But, the host family does have more costs, like utilities, wear and tear on the house, maybe even food, but they also have the advantage of not having to do drop off and getting to make a lot of the choices about the set-up.