Anonymous wrote:It's funny, people on here complain how a nanny should mostly care for the kids and not do too much "house"-related duties.

So here is a reasonable + considerate MB who will hire someone else to do the other stuff and look at all the criticism she faces from responders.

You can never win on this forum.
I wouldn't even try. ;(

Ha. I'm the poster who got the housekeeper for my assistant, as it should be.

It's funny, people on here complain how a nanny should mostly care for the kids and not do too much "house"-related duties.

So here is a reasonable + considerate MB who will hire someone else to do the other stuff and look at all the criticism she faces from responders.

You can never win on this forum.
I wouldn't even try. ;(

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You don't hire a nanny for your nanny! That's ridiculous. Hire a better nanny who can handle two children instead.

This thread and the other one are making me appreciate my nanny even more than I already do. Guess who's getting a bonus this week!

Amazing nannies should be getting a bonus every week.

Yes, but a nanny who can handle two children is not "amazing." She's a childcare worker! That's what they do, supposedly.

You're talking about a professional... with the rates to match.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You don't hire a nanny for your nanny! That's ridiculous. Hire a better nanny who can handle two children instead.

This thread and the other one are making me appreciate my nanny even more than I already do. Guess who's getting a bonus this week!

Amazing nannies should be getting a bonus every week.

Yes, but a nanny who can handle two children is not "amazing." She's a childcare worker! That's what they do, supposedly.

Anonymous wrote:You don't hire a nanny for your nanny! That's ridiculous. Hire a better nanny who can handle two children instead.

This thread and the other one are making me appreciate my nanny even more than I already do. Guess who's getting a bonus this week!

Amazing nannies should be getting a bonus every week.

You don't hire a nanny for your nanny! That's ridiculous. Hire a better nanny who can handle two children instead.

This thread and the other one are making me appreciate my nanny even more than I already do. Guess who's getting a bonus this week!

When I had twins, parents had the FT housekeeper be my assistant whenever it was helpful for me. They didn't want either child to be crying if the other needed my full attention. Mom was a pediatrician.

You need a nanny for your nanny? Seems like a better idea would be getting one competent nanny for a fair price instead of the two you are planning to employ.

The only things on that list that I would not give to the nanny to do are family laundry and family dinner prep. I'd also not expect her to clean up anything that wasn't child related.

I hired a college kid to come and help with laundry and meal prep. $15/hr for about 12 hours/wk.

I'm in the "not going to hire someone to help my nanny" camp.

Our nanny handles all of the things you need (and more) with skill and grace. This isn't an unusual job you have OP. Hire someone who can do the job, not two people.

Picking up your toddler she can do, cleaning bottles and meal prep for kids should be part of her job, that's standard. Op either your nanny can't mange time or is just lazy. Plenty of nannies do what your asking there's no need to spend extra looking for a mothers helper. I'd focus my time looking for a new nanny.

Not expecting nanny to do all of this plus take care of a toddler and 6 month old baby.

How old are your children and why can't your nanny accomplish these task? It's backwards to have to pay out more money to hire a helper for your nanny

Depends on what kind of person you have in mind, plus so many other factors. Best to simply start looking, and then asking them their rates.

Thinking of hiring a mother's helper to come in 3 mornings a week to help our nanny. She would be responsible for picking up our 2 year old from preschool, laundry, cleaning bottles and general tidiness, preparing meals for the children, and doing meal prep (chopping veg, etc.) so that it is easier for us when we get home.

It would take a few hours each week. Any idea of a fair rate?