Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Stop asking her and tell her you will be taking your vacation at that time.
This.
Agree with this. As your employer, she is free to let you know if the dates you've chosen work, but the way you presented it gave her way too much power to jerk you around. Next time send her notice of the dates you will be out, let her know when you intend to finalize your plans, and tell her that if she has a conflict to let you know by X date. Your open ended permission request gave her no real timeline for action, so she's going to do it when it's convenient (and is our vacation ever convenient for them???)