OP here,

I will wait until 15 Jan/ get my weekly pay. I will resign end of this month so she have time to find a replacement.

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Anonymous wrote:13:56 again. This reminds me of when I worked for a doctor (allergist) that would lie to me. I even caught her smoking in my car. She insisted no one in her family was a smoker. I had returned home after a vacation and get into my car and notice a cigarette butt on the floor board. I had no idea who could've had it. I convinced myself that I must've left my car unlocked and someone got inside to smoke and escape the heat while we were gone??? So fast forward a few weeks and see another on the side of my door! I asked her about it because she was the only person that would drive my car other than I. She had a suv that could seat 6 so I would leave her my car at her office and get her keys for the share we were in.

I'm still puzzled months later. Then one day as I'm bringing the kids inside from their garage I noticed the same type of cig by the outside stairs. That's when I knew she was a HUGE liar. I also suspected she'd been getting high whenever she claimed to be staying home to work or exercise and would close herself off in the basement and come up with red eyes and smelling like potpourri. I soon after went back to teaching. I felt incredibly disrespected that she would smoke in my vehicle. Not sure how she covered the scent

She didn't. It's just not possible. I say this as a former car smoker who can now detect the smell in the most minute quantities in other's cars. If you didn't ever smell anything, she wasn't smoking in your car. Likely a butt got stuck to the bottom of her shoe and tracked inside of the car.

You never noticed the smell, it didn't harm you in anyway, and you are clearly incredibly judgmental. No wonder this woman didn't come clean to you.
How's the view from up there on your horse?

Do you think I'm an idiot? They weren't smushed butts they were fully formed just smoked down. I'd think if they had been stuck they would've been flattened. What I really think is she smoked in the parking lot outside of her office because she never wanted me to park my car in the front where the other physicians would. And not only that like I said I also found them in her very own garage at the house leading into the kitchen. Cigarette butts don't stay in good shape if they've traveled from point a to b to c on the bottom of someone's shoe. Not to mention the constant potpourri smell she would have. Are you her? You seem to be taking this very personal. Calm down and stop being unnecessarily rude because you want a cigarette

Anonymous wrote:13:56 again. This reminds me of when I worked for a doctor (allergist) that would lie to me. I even caught her smoking in my car. She insisted no one in her family was a smoker. I had returned home after a vacation and get into my car and notice a cigarette butt on the floor board. I had no idea who could've had it. I convinced myself that I must've left my car unlocked and someone got inside to smoke and escape the heat while we were gone??? So fast forward a few weeks and see another on the side of my door! I asked her about it because she was the only person that would drive my car other than I. She had a suv that could seat 6 so I would leave her my car at her office and get her keys for the share we were in.

I'm still puzzled months later. Then one day as I'm bringing the kids inside from their garage I noticed the same type of cig by the outside stairs. That's when I knew she was a HUGE liar. I also suspected she'd been getting high whenever she claimed to be staying home to work or exercise and would close herself off in the basement and come up with red eyes and smelling like potpourri. I soon after went back to teaching. I felt incredibly disrespected that she would smoke in my vehicle. Not sure how she covered the scent

She didn't. It's just not possible. I say this as a former car smoker who can now detect the smell in the most minute quantities in other's cars. If you didn't ever smell anything, she wasn't smoking in your car. Likely a butt got stuck to the bottom of her shoe and tracked inside of the car.

You never noticed the smell, it didn't harm you in anyway, and you are clearly incredibly judgmental. No wonder this woman didn't come clean to you.
How's the view from up there on your horse?

OP, ever heard of the term "mind your own business?"

13:56 again. This reminds me of when I worked for a doctor (allergist) that would lie to me. I even caught her smoking in my car. She insisted no one in her family was a smoker. I had returned home after a vacation and get into my car and notice a cigarette butt on the floor board. I had no idea who could've had it. I convinced myself that I must've left my car unlocked and someone got inside to smoke and escape the heat while we were gone??? So fast forward a few weeks and see another on the side of my door! I asked her about it because she was the only person that would drive my car other than I. She had a suv that could seat 6 so I would leave her my car at her office and get her keys for the share we were in.

I'm still puzzled months later. Then one day as I'm bringing the kids inside from their garage I noticed the same type of cig by the outside stairs. That's when I knew she was a HUGE liar. I also suspected she'd been getting high whenever she claimed to be staying home to work or exercise and would close herself off in the basement and come up with red eyes and smelling like potpourri. I soon after went back to teaching. I felt incredibly disrespected that she would smoke in my vehicle. Not sure how she covered the scent

Nothing about this post says troll to me now that the boss and work # were explained. And op I think the dining set could've been in the garage while waiting for the buyer to pick them up?

1. Troll
2. If real, this is serious, quit asap.

If someone lies to you about little things then it is highly likely they are lying to you about everything else OP. I say this woman has zero integrity and trust me, that is the last person on the planet you want to work for. Leave now...Stat. Go.

to 20.45 - Her boss was at her house because she miss place the company car key. In order to get the car back to the company the boss need to go to Merc shop to reprogram the key. I don't know how to explain more abt this.

Get away from her.

you don't have her work number, but her boss talked to you about your MB?

it sounds like your "MB" isn't the only liar.

Get out before she involves you in her illegal activity(ies).

If someone has to sell their kitchen table and chairs for extra cash, they can't afford a nanny.

The fact that she tells you she is home alone and when you arrive there is an unknown male there is downright scary.

Just get out.

OP you speak English very well. Too bad I can't help you because I only speak Martian.

I work with a single mom. Her baby just turned 2 months old.

Example:-

1. I noticed few of her furniture was gone. I asked her where is the table? she said "oh I sold it to get more money. I want to sell the chairs too". Two days after that her friend with wheelchairs came over. When I go to the garage ( which always locked) I saw the furniture is there.

2. She said her mom will come visiting next year due to financial and visa. Today she told me her mom will come over in 3 months. I asked her abt the Visa she just play dumb.

3. She told me she will be alone in the house but when I come to work there is this guy from out of state with her.

4. When I signed my contract I asked her to provide 3 people that I can reach out if something happen but she cant even give me one name! The one she gave me is living in San Francisco. She don't even give me her working place number!

5. She asked me to find a car seat base from Craigslist so I found one. After an hour she text me picture of the car seat base that she order online - brand new and $$$!!

6. One day she lost something and asked me to cover up for her. I told her NO! she said if I don't help her she will lost her job. So when her boss asked me question I accidently told him the true story and she quickly cut me off and saying I cannot understand English very well.


I'm thinking of leaving because I'm worry she will lie about me.