Anonymous wrote:why are you so bothered by this? If it is so crazy like you said it was, then the person will have no applicants and will learn their lesson.
I was in a similar situation and I ended up getting an American nanny from the mid-west who for some reason never learned to drive. She moved here to be with her bf who ended up being abusive. She moved in with me and saved my life. Other employers were not giving her the time of day. Of course I was so appreciative and definitely did not demand 24x7 work. It worked well all around. I helped her, who was actually trying to stand up on her own, taught her how to drive, get a driver's license, helped her buy a cheap reliable car from my family member, and after two years, she found a higher paying job and I was fully supportive as my baby was ready for daycare anywhere where she could get more social interaction.
It worked out well for everyone.
No need for you to be upset. It has nothing to do with you.
No, they don't learn their lesson. They get horrific care, then scream bloody murder on the news when things go bad. What do you expect?