It depends on the child and what the parents will allow. For a family who doesn't allow anyone to buy clothing or toys, I do a book or two and a few crafty things, along with a special trip. For a family who allows clothes and/or toys, I do a mix of clothes, toys and books, all things that I know will wear well and be appreciated. With one family, I asked what they allowed and was told nothing as I was "the help" and it wouldn't be appropriate; I found another position the next week and gave my two weeks' notice.

$20ish but it depends on the kid, the family, how long I've known them, how many hours I work for them etc. I've taken kids to see Sesame Street Live and others I've given toder scissors, glue and stickers and stuff. Depends a lot on what I think they need. If they're family is very wealthy I'll spend less because they need less.

Anonymous wrote:Usually 30ish for a singleton, 15-20ish for the family who had three kids. Although this year, my singleton got about 55 or 60. I wanted a really sweet baby doll for her and the only ones I liked were Madame Alexander. I also got her a bib and a bottle with disappearing "milk".

Madame Alexander makes beautiful dolls that hold up forever. My husband's aunt gave our DD beautiful little 7 inch Madame Alexander dolls that she collected in the 1960s. They are beautiful and so meaningful.

Ideally thirty tops, but in reality I always end up spending a bit more when you include the character-themed birthday card, gift bag, etc.

Usually 30ish for a singleton, 15-20ish for the family who had three kids. Although this year, my singleton got about 55 or 60. I wanted a really sweet baby doll for her and the only ones I liked were Madame Alexander. I also got her a bib and a bottle with disappearing "milk".

20-30 range

$20 ish when they were little.
Once they turned 5 i started taking them out somewhere special on my own time instead.

I give a book or take them somewhere. MB doesn't like having tons of "things" around but books are okay.

Anonymous wrote:I usually spend $30. What did you spend on him the previous year?

Honest to God, I do not remember. I gave him his gifts over a few weeks - I do remember that - since he was too young to understand. The one gift I gave him at his party last year was maybe $25 or $30. Maybe less. But I know I gave him a number of books before his birthday and maybe a toy...

Way, way too much. I can't help myself. Being with my charge all day I know exactly what she wants! I think I spent about $100 on her last birthday.

I usually spend $30. What did you spend on him the previous year?

I am just trying to get an average.

I have been this boy's full-time (45 hours a week) nanny since birth and he is turning two. I love him, I love my job and I like my employers very much. I was invited to his birthday party but cannot attend. I will be giving him his gifts from me on his actual weekday birthday.