"Spouse in the house....." has a nice ring to it.

Yes, I would be pissed as hell if he blamed his laziness on me. It wouldn't matter if the company knew it was me or not, it is all about principle here.

Tell him you accidentally saw the message and were quite offended by it.

I would deal with him directly vs. telling his wife first.

Call him on it and tell your MB.

It's not like he's telling his boss your name and contact info.

Wow. That poor wife. Poor you. And most of all, that poor child who deserves a good father. The mother should get some good counseling. There's a reason she married him.

I also was insulted he called me a babysitter. Although at this point, I think any little thing he does is going to irk me.

Just curious if anyone else can't stand the spouse you have the least contact with. I adore MB and her children. Her husband is a lazy, lying, POS and I have visions of her leaving him someday.

Just today I had to upload assignments on the shared iPad and his messages were up on the screen, he slept in until 1040 and is supposed to be at work at 9 am. His excuse to his boss was "so sorry babysitter was late again. On the way now." I have never been late in the 5 years I've worked there so shove it. It was just another thing to add to the list. When I mentioned it to a friend, she said "wow, you know he's making you look bad to one of the largest companies in our area." When she put it like that, I got super mad. He's obviously used this as an excuse before to cover up his morning nap. And I find it weird and creepy to be there taking care of his child when he's sleeping in while his wife cries all the way to work because she can't afford to stay home with her baby right now. Vent over. Anyone else hate the spouse?