We have been fortunate to find two incredible nannies through care.com. After a year and a half the first moved across the country after her fiance was transferred. We were super lucky to find a second nanny who was just as amazing, but, alas, this fall she's off to a full-time graduate program after 2 years with us.
I'm just so pessimistic about another search and how draining it will be. We only need someone part-time, so that significantly narrows the field of good candidates. We pay well, are nice, laid-back people, and DD is pretty easy-going. I just feel like there's no way we'll get so lucky a third time.
Sigh. Pity party over. Wish us luck!