Not abuse but just sad absentee parenting. You can have a nanny and a career and still be an awesome and involved parent, but I've been with families before that just didn't make any effort to be involved and it was really sad to see and sad for the children. They only saw the kids to take them to school in the AM and read them a story before bed. That MIGHT have been ok if the whole weekend was quality time but it wasn't, it was movie, iPad, and play by yourself time. It really depressed me how much these kids were begging for parental interaction.