Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny (not DC), and I agreed to a very stupid situation when I was hired back in February. My MB does banking of my unused hours, which comes to 1 or 2 every week. Since they had lots of trips scheduled where I'd be working 24/7 (hence, giving me the chance to pay up against my "bank"), I agreed to it and it has worked out fine, I haven't been totally happy with it but, I've put up with it and put that issue on backburner.
Today she tells me they are going away all next week (Thanksgiving). She said she will pay me as usual and we can "just add the hours to the bank".
I was speechless all I could say is, "I'm gonna owe you for the whole week????" To which she said not for Thanksgiving, that's a paid holiday.
Now. Any of you do Bank of Hours? And if so, would you do this with your nanny? I just want to find out if I'm on the wrong here. MY reasoning is, yes I agrees to banking hours, I'm ok with 1-2 hours. Does that mean I have to be ok with 40? I feel like I'm available for her and it is not my fault she decides to travel.
Nannies' input also welcome.... Thanks
You are not working those hours but are being paid for them anyways. Don't you think you should have to do something for that money? I think your MB is being very kind and reasonable.
The point is that she is available to work, and would work, were her nanny family in town. There is a cost to reserving someone's time. THAT is what OP does to deserve to be paid despite not working; she maintains her availability and doesn't accept other offers of work. Would you rather compete for your nanny's time on a weekly basis?
They aren't reserving her time... they are out of town. They AND nanny both clearly know that nanny won't be needed that week, no reservation needed. So nanny is free to take on other jobs, or go on vacation, or get drunk. YET she is still getting paid! So at some point she will need to earn that money by working, or return the money to her employer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny (not DC), and I agreed to a very stupid situation when I was hired back in February. My MB does banking of my unused hours, which comes to 1 or 2 every week. Since they had lots of trips scheduled where I'd be working 24/7 (hence, giving me the chance to pay up against my "bank"), I agreed to it and it has worked out fine, I haven't been totally happy with it but, I've put up with it and put that issue on backburner.
Today she tells me they are going away all next week (Thanksgiving). She said she will pay me as usual and we can "just add the hours to the bank".
I was speechless all I could say is, "I'm gonna owe you for the whole week????" To which she said not for Thanksgiving, that's a paid holiday.
Now. Any of you do Bank of Hours? And if so, would you do this with your nanny? I just want to find out if I'm on the wrong here. MY reasoning is, yes I agrees to banking hours, I'm ok with 1-2 hours. Does that mean I have to be ok with 40? I feel like I'm available for her and it is not my fault she decides to travel.
Nannies' input also welcome.... Thanks
You are not working those hours but are being paid for them anyways. Don't you think you should have to do something for that money? I think your MB is being very kind and reasonable.
The point is that she is available to work, and would work, were her nanny family in town. There is a cost to reserving someone's time. THAT is what OP does to deserve to be paid despite not working; she maintains her availability and doesn't accept other offers of work. Would you rather compete for your nanny's time on a weekly basis?
They aren't reserving her time... they are out of town. They AND nanny both clearly know that nanny won't be needed that week, no reservation needed. So nanny is free to take on other jobs, or go on vacation, or get drunk. YET she is still getting paid! So at some point she will need to earn that money by working, or return the money to her employer.
Nope, that's not how it works with childcare. Banking hours is illegal. Besides it being illegal, it's almost impossible for the nanny to get out of "debt" when they bank entire weeks worth of hours. It also just leads to a nanny feeling taken advantage of and overworked, which isn't great for the relationship.
That being said, I do believe that guaranteed hours is something that needs to be negotiated, so it's not a given. OP, maybe you and your NF could come up with a compromise? Have a cap on the number of hours that you can owe? Or bank 1/2 of the hours if they are gone for the week?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny (not DC), and I agreed to a very stupid situation when I was hired back in February. My MB does banking of my unused hours, which comes to 1 or 2 every week. Since they had lots of trips scheduled where I'd be working 24/7 (hence, giving me the chance to pay up against my "bank"), I agreed to it and it has worked out fine, I haven't been totally happy with it but, I've put up with it and put that issue on backburner.
Today she tells me they are going away all next week (Thanksgiving). She said she will pay me as usual and we can "just add the hours to the bank".
I was speechless all I could say is, "I'm gonna owe you for the whole week????" To which she said not for Thanksgiving, that's a paid holiday.
Now. Any of you do Bank of Hours? And if so, would you do this with your nanny? I just want to find out if I'm on the wrong here. MY reasoning is, yes I agrees to banking hours, I'm ok with 1-2 hours. Does that mean I have to be ok with 40? I feel like I'm available for her and it is not my fault she decides to travel.
Nannies' input also welcome.... Thanks
You are not working those hours but are being paid for them anyways. Don't you think you should have to do something for that money? I think your MB is being very kind and reasonable.
The point is that she is available to work, and would work, were her nanny family in town. There is a cost to reserving someone's time. THAT is what OP does to deserve to be paid despite not working; she maintains her availability and doesn't accept other offers of work. Would you rather compete for your nanny's time on a weekly basis?
They aren't reserving her time... they are out of town. They AND nanny both clearly know that nanny won't be needed that week, no reservation needed. So nanny is free to take on other jobs, or go on vacation, or get drunk. YET she is still getting paid! So at some point she will need to earn that money by working, or return the money to her employer.[/quote]
Nope, that's not how it works with childcare. Banking hours is illegal. Besides it being illegal, it's almost impossible for the nanny to get out of "debt" when they bank entire weeks worth of hours. It also just leads to a nanny feeling taken advantage of and overworked, which isn't great for the relationship.
That being said, I do believe that guaranteed hours is something that needs to be negotiated, so it's not a given. OP, maybe you and your NF could come up with a compromise? Have a cap on the number of hours that you can owe? Or bank 1/2 of the hours if they are gone for the week?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny (not DC), and I agreed to a very stupid situation when I was hired back in February. My MB does banking of my unused hours, which comes to 1 or 2 every week. Since they had lots of trips scheduled where I'd be working 24/7 (hence, giving me the chance to pay up against my "bank"), I agreed to it and it has worked out fine, I haven't been totally happy with it but, I've put up with it and put that issue on backburner.
Today she tells me they are going away all next week (Thanksgiving). She said she will pay me as usual and we can "just add the hours to the bank".
I was speechless all I could say is, "I'm gonna owe you for the whole week????" To which she said not for Thanksgiving, that's a paid holiday.
Now. Any of you do Bank of Hours? And if so, would you do this with your nanny? I just want to find out if I'm on the wrong here. MY reasoning is, yes I agrees to banking hours, I'm ok with 1-2 hours. Does that mean I have to be ok with 40? I feel like I'm available for her and it is not my fault she decides to travel.
Nannies' input also welcome.... Thanks
You are not working those hours but are being paid for them anyways. Don't you think you should have to do something for that money? I think your MB is being very kind and reasonable.
The point is that she is available to work, and would work, were her nanny family in town. There is a cost to reserving someone's time. THAT is what OP does to deserve to be paid despite not working; she maintains her availability and doesn't accept other offers of work. Would you rather compete for your nanny's time on a weekly basis?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny (not DC), and I agreed to a very stupid situation when I was hired back in February. My MB does banking of my unused hours, which comes to 1 or 2 every week. Since they had lots of trips scheduled where I'd be working 24/7 (hence, giving me the chance to pay up against my "bank"), I agreed to it and it has worked out fine, I haven't been totally happy with it but, I've put up with it and put that issue on backburner.
Today she tells me they are going away all next week (Thanksgiving). She said she will pay me as usual and we can "just add the hours to the bank".
I was speechless all I could say is, "I'm gonna owe you for the whole week????" To which she said not for Thanksgiving, that's a paid holiday.
Now. Any of you do Bank of Hours? And if so, would you do this with your nanny? I just want to find out if I'm on the wrong here. MY reasoning is, yes I agrees to banking hours, I'm ok with 1-2 hours. Does that mean I have to be ok with 40? I feel like I'm available for her and it is not my fault she decides to travel.
Nannies' input also welcome.... Thanks
You are not working those hours but are being paid for them anyways. Don't you think you should have to do something for that money? I think your MB is being very kind and reasonable.
Anonymous wrote:I am a nanny (not DC), and I agreed to a very stupid situation when I was hired back in February. My MB does banking of my unused hours, which comes to 1 or 2 every week. Since they had lots of trips scheduled where I'd be working 24/7 (hence, giving me the chance to pay up against my "bank"), I agreed to it and it has worked out fine, I haven't been totally happy with it but, I've put up with it and put that issue on backburner.
Today she tells me they are going away all next week (Thanksgiving). She said she will pay me as usual and we can "just add the hours to the bank".
I was speechless all I could say is, "I'm gonna owe you for the whole week????" To which she said not for Thanksgiving, that's a paid holiday.
Now. Any of you do Bank of Hours? And if so, would you do this with your nanny? I just want to find out if I'm on the wrong here. MY reasoning is, yes I agrees to banking hours, I'm ok with 1-2 hours. Does that mean I have to be ok with 40? I feel like I'm available for her and it is not my fault she decides to travel.
Nannies' input also welcome.... Thanks