Anonymous wrote:How is her English? I can see how a nanny who won't be otherwise employable by a family that doesn't speak her native tongue would agree to a lower rate. Also, what visa is she on? Is it diplomat dependent visa? Then she is not obligated to pay payroll taxes, and depending on a country a treaty might apply so she won't pay income taxes, so basically all the money is take home pay. If you are able to afford to pay more, you should offer that, but I can see how she might have lower expectations.
OP here. Thanks for bringing that up. She cannot speak English other than a very little bit of conversational English, "How are you?", etc. Her native tongue (as well as mine), is an unusual one and not widely spoken in America. All her money will be take home pay.