Anonymous wrote:Your husband is SOOOOO out of line. Its her phone, and its her time. You have no idea what reason she has for declining your call. It was a Friday night. Maybe she was out with friends, maybe she was driving, maybe she was at a movie or a church service, or eating dinner with her family. It could have been anything really. If he wants to talk about what is disrespectful, you should start with his assumption that his nanny owes him anything in her free time. Your husband is the one who needs to learn some respect. Respect for your nanny's time, respect for her boundaries, and respect for her as a person. She isn't his child to scold.
He does respect her.