Anonymous
Post 06/10/2014 14:05     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:
1) Reliable
2) Understands child development
3) Up to date on child safety
4) self-directed and a good time manager
5) patient and forgiving (when it comes to small children)


For all of the above a nanny should be paid no less than $100.00/hr.


I'm going to assume you're joking because this is the minimum to expect from a $15/hr nanny. Nothing exceptional here.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2014 13:36     Subject: What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Not rising to this bait again OP.

Wasted energy.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2014 13:34     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.

So if a nanny is taking care of a newborn baby and they stay in the house all day why can't the nanny sit on the couch? What should she be doing? Usually I am on the couch holding the baby or watching it sleep in a bouncy chair. Is that looked down on if all other child related things are done like laundry and cleaning bottles. You can't really have it both ways you can't say don't leave the house but oh ya don't sit down either. Standing up all day holding a newborn in no way benefits the baby more then the nanny sitting.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2014 13:01     Subject: What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:1) Reliable
2) Understands child development
3) Up to date on child safety
4) self-directed and a good time manager
5) patient and forgiving (when it comes to small children)


For all of the above a nanny should be paid no less than $100.00/hr.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2014 11:15     Subject: What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

A Good Nanny is:

~Reliable (someone who doesn't call in sick very often.)
~Prompt (shows up on time.)
~Responsible
~Fun-loving
~An excellent communicator/Approachable
~High energy/Young at heart
~Can take direction well
~Respects boundaries
~Full of integrity/Good morals/Ethics
~Interactive & Engaging



A Good Employer is:

~Respectful of their employees
~Law-abiding on all counts
~Provides a safe & comfortable working environment
~Offers complete autonomy
~Does not micromanage
~Respects boundaries
~Pays a fair + competent wage
~Does not take advantage
~Offers praise when deserved
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2014 10:21     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?



A good nanny is up to date on child development, continues to seek out additional information, knows from practice or intuition how to head off tantrums, hitting, or stealing toys, keeps young children on dependable schedules, and of course loves kids - as well as having qualities generally desired in all professions (organized, efficient, patient, good communicator).

A good nanny employee respects healthy boundaries when it comes to sharing personal information or bringing drama to work, anticipates parents' anxieties and tries to preemptively address them, handles her day to day responsibilities without needing guidance from the parents but always consults them when it comes to issues of sleeping, eating, discipline, or other areas where parental philosophy might vary, does everything that is outlined in her job contract reliably, expects to get paid on time but never asks for an advance on a paycheck, and otherwise conducts herself as a professional.


Excellent response. I know every family/nanny relationship is different, but maintaining some distance between your professional life and personal life is important for both sides.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 23:18     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.



- written by Bitter Mommy who has never been able to afford a Nanny.


I'm a nanny and I would agree with the statement that most nannies are not good nannies. I would never hire about 98% of the nannies I have come across. I'm not a bitter mommy or nanny. I just know from the experiences I have had over the years with other nannies and how they have treated the children they care for, I would never hire them.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 21:50     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.


Such an extraordinary amount of generalizing in this post! I would bet my life savings that if you have a nanny, you're a crappy employer.

Back to OP's question...

A good nanny is up to date on child development, continues to seek out additional information, knows from practice or intuition how to head off tantrums, hitting, or stealing toys, keeps young children on dependable schedules, and of course loves kids - as well as having qualities generally desired in all professions (organized, efficient, pati













You are the worse one,please not judge others people.








ent, good communicator).

A good nanny employee respects healthy boundaries when it comes to sharing personal information or bringing drama to work, anticipates parents' anxieties and tries to preemptively address them, handles her day to day responsibilities without needing guidance from the parents but always consults them when it comes to issues of sleeping, eating, discipline, or other areas where parental philosophy might vary, does everything that is outlined in her job contract reliably, expects to get paid on time but never asks for an advance on a paycheck, and otherwise conducts herself as a professional.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 21:47     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.




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Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 21:43     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.


Such an extraordinary amount of generalizing in this post! I would bet my life savings that if you have a nanny, you're a crappy employer.

Back to OP's question...

A good nanny is up to date on child development, continues to seek out additional information, knows from practice or intuition how to head off tantrums, hitting, or stealing toys, keeps young children on dependable schedules, and of course loves kids - as well as having qualities generally desired in all professions (organized, efficient, patient, good communicator).

A good nanny employee respects healthy boundaries when it comes to sharing personal information or bringing drama to work, anticipates parents' anxieties and tries to preemptively address them, handles her day to day responsibilities without needing guidance from the parents but always consults them when it comes to issues of sleeping, eating, discipline, or other areas where parental philosophy might vary, does everything that is outlined in her job contract reliably, expects to get paid on time but never asks for an advance on a paycheck, and otherwise conducts herself as a professional.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 21:22     Subject: What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

I'm a nanny but I'll answer anyways..

A good employee is someone who gets the job done, whatever it takes. They are on time, ready to work. They check their problems at the door and is easy to get along with.

A good nanny can relate to the child and the parent. She can Relay important information. She is careful and thoughtful in her actions. She understand child development and knows that her decisions when she's with the child have an impact and therefore needs to provide a good example. Loving, caring, creative...
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 21:14     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Anonymous wrote:A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.



- written by Bitter Mommy who has never been able to afford a Nanny.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 20:03     Subject: Re:What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

A good employee does their job. Many nannies are terrible employees. They focus first on entertaining themselves and putting forward weak rationalizations for their poor behavior. There is no benefit to a newborn tagging along on nanny play dates or running errands with a nanny. A good employee finds way to make their position valuable. They don't jealously their right to sit on a couch for half the day.

A good nanny is a good employee that knows how to do her job. She understands that she is not the center of the universe. She offers valuable insight to parents but in the end follows their directions because she is the employee not the employer. She takes responsibility for her own actions. She is dependable.

Most nannies are not good employees or good nannies.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 19:48     Subject: What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

1) Reliable
2) Understands child development
3) Up to date on child safety
4) self-directed and a good time manager
5) patient and forgiving (when it comes to small children)
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2014 18:51     Subject: What IS a "good nanny" AND a "good employee"?

Carefully think about it first, parents....