We had a good experience with a former nanny who worked
for us for over 3 years. We parted ways amicably about 2 years ago.
Since then I have served as a reference multiple times because
I was her longest employer. But she can't hold a job or mom's even call
me to say she is nothing like I described, wouldn't do things they asked,
or was so aggressive about salary instead of the job that it was off-putting.
I feel I am giving an honest assessment of her time with us but maybe she
has changed. Should I continue serving as her primary
reference? I have tried to give her interview advice before
but it clearly hasn't helped.