Our younger counterparts were raised to demand the best but the social graces and expression of gratitude did not get passed down. Because they have so much these days ordinary, small acts of kindness are unappreciated but for the rare child with humble upbringing. I enjoy hearing that some nannies appreciate a gift even if it is a small token of appreciation. Those of you who take issue with the form, value, origin of the gift need to understand that you have no say in the matter because it is only a gift, not an entitlement.

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Anonymous wrote: gift cards are always appreciated by our nanny. We have done spa, dinner at a nice restaurant, and Target cards. Not sure what is meant by 'used' but as a teacher I get about $500 in Starbucks gift cards a year but don't drink coffee so they get used as stocking stuffers. I can't imagine just throwing them away nor has anyone ever been to high class to appreciate them.

I wouldn't consider that a used gift card. What I would call used is if someone gave you a $50 gift card, you spent $12 and gave the remaining $38 to your nanny and called it a gift. I'd rather get a card or nothing at all than your leftovers.

38 bucks is 38 bucks. Money doesn't go bad. I'll take it.

If the money is what you care about then sure. To me a gift is about the thought you put into, irregardless of cost. A leftover gift card does not say we care about you and thought you'd enjoy this, it says I had this lying around and felt obligated to give you something.

Anonymous wrote:She is lovely and works for us 3 days a week. I want to mark the occasion and get her a present she can enjoy. She takes good care herself (and looks awesome). Would



a spa gift certificate be appropriate?

Money,money money.

The card value should cover the entire cost one one service. If it doesn't than she may not be able to afford to go still. A $50 gift card to a high end spa would probably not be adequate.

My family bought me a book by an author they've seen me read before and my favorite tea. I was very happy to receive the gift though it cost them under $15. It was very thoughtful.

I'd only get her a spa gift card if she has mentioned that she loves spa services and enjoys the pampering. I actually hate spas and do get mani/pedis regularly but don't enjoy them - to me all personal care (getting hair cut/highlighted, facials) is like going to the dentist. I do it but don't like it.

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Anonymous wrote: gift cards are always appreciated by our nanny. We have done spa, dinner at a nice restaurant, and Target cards. Not sure what is meant by 'used' but as a teacher I get about $500 in Starbucks gift cards a year but don't drink coffee so they get used as stocking stuffers. I can't imagine just throwing them away nor has anyone ever been to high class to appreciate them.

I wouldn't consider that a used gift card. What I would call used is if someone gave you a $50 gift card, you spent $12 and gave the remaining $38 to your nanny and called it a gift. I'd rather get a card or nothing at all than your leftovers.

38 bucks is 38 bucks. Money doesn't go bad. I'll take it.

Anonymous wrote: gift cards are always appreciated by our nanny. We have done spa, dinner at a nice restaurant, and Target cards. Not sure what is meant by 'used' but as a teacher I get about $500 in Starbucks gift cards a year but don't drink coffee so they get used as stocking stuffers. I can't imagine just throwing them away nor has anyone ever been to high class to appreciate them.

I wouldn't consider that a used gift card. What I would call used is if someone gave you a $50 gift card, you spent $12 and gave the remaining $38 to your nanny and called it a gift. I'd rather get a card or nothing at all than your leftovers.

gift cards are always appreciated by our nanny. We have done spa, dinner at a nice restaurant, and Target cards. Not sure what is meant by 'used' but as a teacher I get about $500 in Starbucks gift cards a year but don't drink coffee so they get used as stocking stuffers. I can't imagine just throwing them away nor has anyone ever been to high class to appreciate them.

Anything is acceptable...Just nothing used, from a dollar store or re-gifted.

Yes, thought matters.

Gift cards/certificates are pretty much always appropriate presents in a nanny/employer relationship

I just our nanny (full time, with us almost 3 years) for a full day at a spa and she loved it.

I like giving that kind of pampering gift when you know it's someone who can/will enjoy it.

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Anonymous wrote:She is lovely and works for us 3 days a week. I want to mark the occasion and get her a present she can enjoy. She takes good care herself (and looks awesome). Would a spa gift certificate be appropriate?

Nannies love gift cards. New or used.

Nanny here. Please don't give your nanny a used gift card. That is tacky as hell.

Anonymous wrote:She is lovely and works for us 3 days a week. I want to mark the occasion and get her a present she can enjoy. She takes good care herself (and looks awesome). Would a spa gift certificate be appropriate?

Nannies love gift cards. New or used.

She is lovely and works for us 3 days a week. I want to mark the occasion and get her a present she can enjoy. She takes good care herself (and looks awesome). Would a spa gift certificate be appropriate?