Oh, I'm sorry, OP, I understand. My MB/DB have a mother/MIL who seems to feel that I am her personal maid when she visits. She tells me to get her coffee, make her bed, keep the kids quiet while she naps and MB/DB say nothing (although I am contracted to only do child related chores). I do it all just to keep the peace as the grandmother is home with me and the kids all day. I dread her visits.