This was the care situation we had for DS, until we ended the arrsngement. The SAHM nanny bit off a bit more than she could chew. She lost the freedom of staying at home and had another kids, my sons, schedule to contend with. I also got tired of my son being dragged along to hair cuts, ballet performances, and play dates for her 2 year old . Also- what happens when the kids get sick? Or when you get sick? We switched to daycare as soon as we could. She was great- and loved my kid , but we needed longer term reliability.