Anonymous wrote:I would only be upset (and I use that term very lightly) if you had an understanding with me that you would be available for babysitting in addition to your nanny hours. And, even then I wouldn't be upset, just would appreciated that you told me so I knew that I need to plan out my own babysitting needs further in advance. If you do not usually babysit for your family in addition to your nanny hours, I don't think it is necessary to tell them. It might be courteous, but there is no real need. It is your time to do with as you please.
Anonymous wrote:OP. MYOB. What the nanny does on her hours is nobody's business but hers. Who died and made you her slave master?
Anonymous wrote:Why would you be upset? She's friendly enough to have made contacts and wants to pick up some extra $ in her personal time. You don't own her
Anonymous wrote:These are across the street neighbors from where I work, it's a stay at home mom(so she's not trying to steal me away, and I wouldn't leave my current family). The kids play almost daily whether their in my care or my bosses. I just realized I never mentioned it to them, and I'm not sure if that would
Be awkward .