Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:46
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Anonymous wrote:No i just appreciate her volunteering to help out.
She's not a volunteer. She's not your family. She's your employee. You pay her, she works. You don't pay her, she does whatever the f*ck she wants. Get it?
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:45
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Anonymous wrote:Okay I don't think you're for real, but if by chance you are, why do you expect her to hang around your house and help during her "off duty" hours? You aren't paying her, so why would you presume to lay claim on her time?
Why would I lie about this. Not everyone's life situation is exactly the same.
I'm not asking her to be a slave, just little helpful things. She walks by and sees that I am having a really hard time getting the girls to eat, she could help me (they always eat for her).
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:43
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Okay I don't think you're for real, but if by chance you are, why do you expect her to hang around your house and help during her "off duty" hours? You aren't paying her, so why would you presume to lay claim on her time?
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:39
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
No i just appreciate her volunteering to help out.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:39
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
You had to wrangle the kids by yourself yesterday. Yesterday was Friday, and her work week ended on Thursday at 6pm. So why would she help you at the park on Friday if she's not on duty? You told her when she'd be off from work, she made plans for her free time, and that's it.
If you want to create a rule that she can't have men overnight, then make that rule. But you have no right to impose on her free time.
If you want to create a rule that she can't have men overnight, then make that rule. But you have no right to impose on her free time.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:09
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She's can f out side the house,but not inside ,this is is orrrrbnlljgttujmhgi
No, I would prefer if she would hang out with the family more. I had to wrangle the kids by myself at the park yesterday. I had to feed them also... by myself. She and the BF just walked by and didn't offer to help me out at all. She said that her and him are going out to early dinner at 5 and would like to take the girls. HELL YES. I have been dealing with them alone for 2 days now.
So your friend IS right. You want her to "spend more time with the family" so she can help you take care of your children.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:07
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Anonymous wrote:She's can f out side the house,but not inside ,this is is orrrrbnlljgttujmhgi
No, I would prefer if she would hang out with the family more. I had to wrangle the kids by myself at the park yesterday. I had to feed them also... by myself. She and the BF just walked by and didn't offer to help me out at all. She said that her and him are going out to early dinner at 5 and would like to take the girls. HELL YES. I have been dealing with them alone for 2 days now.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 15:03
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Anonymous wrote:I think your friend is right.
How old is your nanny? Are you jealous that she has a healthy sex life? Also, just because she's been with her boyfriend, doesn't mean they're going at it like rabbits.
I think this is a non-issue. She's your nanny and has a life outside of her work. Let her enjoy it.
Nanny is 23. Why would I be jealous. I have a sex life as well. Obviously, I have 2 kids. And yes they are... I can hear them.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:56
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
I hope you are a troll because if you are for real, then you need help. Have you got the hots for your nanny? As an aside, reread your post and maybe you will understand why she wants to be as far from ypu as possible.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:56
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
She's can f out side the house,but not inside ,this is is orrrrbnlljgttujmhgi
Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:54
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
I think you is the one to say to her this ,you have to respect my house and my family,not bring mens into my house.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:54
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
I think your friend is right.
How old is your nanny? Are you jealous that she has a healthy sex life? Also, just because she's been with her boyfriend, doesn't mean they're going at it like rabbits.
I think this is a non-issue. She's your nanny and has a life outside of her work. Let her enjoy it.
How old is your nanny? Are you jealous that she has a healthy sex life? Also, just because she's been with her boyfriend, doesn't mean they're going at it like rabbits.
I think this is a non-issue. She's your nanny and has a life outside of her work. Let her enjoy it.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:52
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
OP, I'm a strong proponent of healthy boundaries. Sorry.
Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:46
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Anonymous wrote:Nanny has been "off duty" since Thursday night at about 6 pm. Her working hrs this week were M-Th 6am- 6pm.
As soon as I came home she left the living room and told the kids that she was going to shower and go out. Am I the only one who expects the nanny to spend little more time with the family? Within 40 minutes she came downstairs looking like a different person. She all done up and in heel and the kids oohhhed and ahhed that she looked pretty. She told them to have a good night and that she would see them tomorrow (Friday).
She lied. She did not come back in until about 1 pm yesterday wearing the same thing she went out in. She said that she slept at her boyfriend's house. Then last night pretty much the same thing happened but her BF came over to pick her up and the kids were crawling all over him. They went out and she told me that he was spending the night (we let her have guests we just want to know when so we know when to not walk around in pjs).
It is not almost 3 pm and she is still in her room with him. I know he is here because his car is here and I can hear them every so often. She has an attic suite type room with a staircase going to the door to the actual room. I am considering sending the kids up there but I would feel like I am using my kids to be nosy.
Nanny is not back on duty until Monday morning but is it too much to ask that she is not having sex for 3 days straight? I talked to my friend about this and she said I just want the nanny to hang around so I can give the kids to her even when shes off duty which isnt true. I am just wondering when she plans to rejoin the family.
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Anonymous
08/03/2013 14:46
Subject: Nanny should spend more time with us
Nanny has been "off duty" since Thursday night at about 6 pm. Her working hrs this week were M-Th 6am- 6pm.
As soon as I came home she left the living room and told the kids that she was going to shower and go out. Am I the only one who expects the nanny to spend little more time with the family? Within 40 minutes she came downstairs looking like a different person. She all done up and in heel and the kids oohhhed and ahhed that she looked pretty. She told them to have a good night and that she would see them tomorrow (Friday).
She lied. She did not come back in until about 1 pm yesterday wearing the same thing she went out in. She said that she slept at her boyfriend's house. Then last night pretty much the same thing happened but her BF came over to pick her up and the kids were crawling all over him. They went out and she told me that he was spending the night (we let her have guests we just want to know when so we know when to not walk around in pjs).
It is not almost 3 pm and she is still in her room with him. I know he is here because his car is here and I can hear them every so often. She has an attic suite type room with a staircase going to the door to the actual room. I am considering sending the kids up there but I would feel like I am using my kids to be nosy.
Nanny is not back on duty until Monday morning but is it too much to ask that she is not having sex for 3 days straight? I talked to my friend about this and she said I just want the nanny to hang around so I can give the kids to her even when shes off duty which isnt true. I am just wondering when she plans to rejoin the family.
As soon as I came home she left the living room and told the kids that she was going to shower and go out. Am I the only one who expects the nanny to spend little more time with the family? Within 40 minutes she came downstairs looking like a different person. She all done up and in heel and the kids oohhhed and ahhed that she looked pretty. She told them to have a good night and that she would see them tomorrow (Friday).
She lied. She did not come back in until about 1 pm yesterday wearing the same thing she went out in. She said that she slept at her boyfriend's house. Then last night pretty much the same thing happened but her BF came over to pick her up and the kids were crawling all over him. They went out and she told me that he was spending the night (we let her have guests we just want to know when so we know when to not walk around in pjs).
It is not almost 3 pm and she is still in her room with him. I know he is here because his car is here and I can hear them every so often. She has an attic suite type room with a staircase going to the door to the actual room. I am considering sending the kids up there but I would feel like I am using my kids to be nosy.
Nanny is not back on duty until Monday morning but is it too much to ask that she is not having sex for 3 days straight? I talked to my friend about this and she said I just want the nanny to hang around so I can give the kids to her even when shes off duty which isnt true. I am just wondering when she plans to rejoin the family.