Anonymous wrote:I think I would first ask them what they had in mind. Did you already do that?
Why would she do that? They pay her $10/hr so they should be expecting that is what the non-sleeping hours will cost. What OP wants to charge for sleeping hours is her right. The parents could say no and find someone else if they wanted to, or OP could say that is the amount she wants but is willing to negotiate it. I would not ask the parents what they wanted to pay, as I am sure it would be the cheapest they could get away with. Who really WANTS to pay more than they need to? This is a special circumstance and the OP's personal time that she is giving up, so it is the OP who gets to bring a rate to the table for the start of negotiations (if she is willing to negotiate at all). Let them see how much it really does cost for overnight childcare as letting them start negotiations lets them think that what they want to charge is what gets done.