Anonymous wrote:If it is a family that you normally sit for and you have a regular rate with them, they may not even expect a surcharge for NYE. I would only add a dollar or two to it and they might even resent that. If they resent you they probably won't say anything but the next time they need a sitter, they will go with someone else on the list. If you don't want to do it, just say you are going out and don't take the job. Asking for time and a half to one of your regular families that you've sat for before because it is NYE is not commonplace.
You can explain to them that while you *could* be available to sit on NYE, that since you could easily make plans as well (since it is a special night), that you would charge more. That let's the family decide if they really need someone, whether that person is you or not, and let's them decide to not even get into the rate you would charge if they were not interested in paying more. I would also let them know during that conversation that while they could potentially find someone to watch the kids for around the normal rate they pay you, that it is unlikely they will. Parents don't need to go out on NYE, they can spend the night in with their children and celebrate there (my parents always did). If they want the chance to go out and party with their kids at home, on what is most likely a later night than other date nights (who would want to come home right after midnight?), then they have to pay a premium for that chance. If they want to party, there is a good chance the nanny would like to as well, and only a good rate for the night would be enough to change her mind.
For me, I would want at least $25/hr otherwise I would rather stay in (if I wasn't going out with friends). The family that I live with chose to go with close family friends who are staying in that night for both kids to go over and stay the night with. Gives me the chance to go out or stay in, and we don't have to mess with a higher rate for the evening.