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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.

-Yes, to a pp, that was my first posting. Staying after minimally was if they had to stay later at work and they said they always knew ahead of time.
-To another pp, the little one was picked up by mom during lesson time as mom said it would be too late to pick him up after lesson was over, as there would just be about 30 min left then before the preschool closed and I might not reach it in time. The lesson starts pretty soon after bus pickup as well.

They didn't contact me over the weekend nor I them. I decided to give notice in person and not over email/phone. I came in and Friday wasn't mentioned at all. She was being very nice - she is in general, but for example, she was asking how my day went and to help myself to anything, and she only said this once before, which was last Tuesday when I started. She did give me my check.

She mentioned she was going back to work part-time tomorrow. I did the usual routine - gave snacks, played, baths. When it was 6:30, she told the kids not to bother me as it was time to go, and nicely, so she was making an effort and I stayed a little after to help with any last dinner prep.

I asked if I could talk to her before I left and apologized again for forgetting to turn my phone off and asking to leave early. She said she was too for blowing up at once and thanks for my help today. She said it was fine and that if I needed to leave, I needed to leave. I said if I was in her place, I would not have appreciated that from my nanny so I understand. I said I love the kids but I can see that we aren't a good fit and that with her rate, she will definitely find another candidate that can help out more and stay after in the evenings as it's not fair to her that I have evening commitments and rush out. She said that she's going back to work tomorrow so maybe her being home was part of the problem and how about we see how it goes with just me and the kids and if I still feel like it won't work, to then give notice. I was polite, but said today WAS my two weeks notice. She said okay and she will see me tomorrow.

So I guess unless she finds a replacement before two weeks, I will do the usual routine.[/quote]

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