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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think if you want to have an open and trusting relationship with your nanny, honestly, both of you screwed up and should try to start fresh. That may mean both of you moving on to a different employer/nanny, or it may mean that you both let this one go and discuss how to best prevent it from happening again. She made an effort to communicate openly with you when she voiced concerns about a milk allergy (multiple times?) and you shut down that communication by not taking her concerns seriously and looking into it (checking with his doctor?). She also screwed up by taking matters into her own hands and not getting your go ahead on eliminating the dairy from his diet, also shutting down effective communication. The nanny was wrong to go behind your back. However if you would like to keep her (she sounds knowledgeable experienced and confident in her judgement), and salvage the trust and communication, you BOTH need to acknowledge you failed at communicating and will work on it in the future.[/quote]

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