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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is what I would say to her, if I wanted her to continue as my au pair: "Larla, you are an adult and its up to you how you spend your money. I want to make sure you understand all the expenses associated with car ownership like insurance, maintenance, repairs etc. Also, just in case its relevant, please know that your visa rules don't permit you to to earn income outside the program and if you do something like Uber, the Uber company will report your income to the IRS, so the government might ask questions. Also, due to changing circumstances with our family, I need to adapt the rules regarding your boy friend. He can spend the night only on weekends/when you aren't working the next day. We value you as a great AP to our kids, so I hope we can work these issues out."[/quote] This is an appropriate boundary-respecting response. [/quote]
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