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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's wrong to ask the AP to give up their room. It's meant to be their one dedicated private space for the year they can count on, and you shouldn't underestimate how much most APs value that. And she will need it more than ever when the house becomes more crowded and chaotic with guests. You may think of them like a niece, but it's unlikely they will feel like one in this case - at least not in any positive way. Of course she will say yes to your face - what else can she say while keeping the peace and your good will? But this is a CLASSIC kind of thing APs complain to each other about (and IMO , completely justified). [/quote] Completely agree with this. Even growing up as kid/teenager my mom would make me move out of my room for guests and it's just really uncomfortable. I wouldn't do this to my kids now or my AP. Can your sister and her kids set up shop in the rest of the basement?[/quote]
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