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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 10:09, a previous poster, and an MB and I am so sorry OP. Your boss is completely in the wrong. She deserves to lose you. But it sucks to be in your position even though you're in the right. I am so sorry. I hope you are already sending out resumes and responding to ads. If you're able to do it this is certainly an occasion when quitting might feel great, but I never advise anyone to quit before having a job. It is almost always much harder to find a job when you're unemployed, and if you look while you're still there you find way a way to explain why they aren't a reference. So look for a new job immediately - you can tell prospective employers that this position is no longer a good fit for you, so you are considering other options. Tell them you will wait until you find something great, so in the interim your current employers do not know that you are looking elsewhere and therefore cannot be a reference. If you are pressed about why you're leaving be ready w/ a professional, truthful but unemotional sentence or two and a planned way to get back to a positive message. (Like "In recent months extended family started visiting regularly and there were in family disagreements about how to care for the kids. That led to tension and confusion and I'm really looking for an environment where I can be a unified team with the parents to provide excellent consistent care for the kids..." I'm really sorry OP. [/quote]
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