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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]MB here.

Don't let it go OP.  This would fester in me if I didn't address and I think you should send an email.

I think it's great that you're not as angry as you were last week - that lets you manage this all much more calmly.  But your MB was in the wrong and this situation with family is likely to happen again.  It's always best to manage this stuff when not in the heat of the moment.  Maybe you can say something like "Last week was really difficult - for all of us.  I never want the kids in harms way, and I certainly don't want you thinking I would be negligent in my duties.  When you told me to stand back and let the grandparents take the lead unless they asked me for help I did, but then I feel like i got blamed for their failure to watch the kids.  Can we talk about how to clarify roles so that the next time family is visiting we don't have another instance of this?  I'm happy to talk w/ you after hours by phone if that's easier, or to come in a few minutes early - whatever is easiest - just let me know."

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I think this is asking OP to be subservient.  She needs to be assertive and this situation should be addressed while on the clock.[/quote]

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